Everything Happens For a Reason…

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From: www.phoenixmasonry.org  

One of the best thoughts about life…

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become.  You never know who these people may be (possibly your roommate, neighbor, teacher, fraternal brother or sister, long lost friend, lover, or even a complete stranger), but when you lock eyes with them, you know that at that very moment they will affect your life in some profound way.
And sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower, or heart.
Everything happens for a reason.  Nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without the small tests, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight flat road to nowhere.  It would be safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless.
The people you meet who affect your life, and the success and downfalls you experience, help to create who you are and who you become.  Even the bad experiences can be learned from.  In fact, they are probably the most poignant and important ones. If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.  If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things. Make every day count.
Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people that you have never talked to before, and actually listen.  Let yourself fall in love, break free, and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to.
Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don’t believe in yourself, it will be hard for others to believe in you.  You can make your life anything you wish.  Create your own life and then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets.  Most importantly, if you love someone tell them, for you never know what tomorrow may have in store.
And finally, enjoy looking forward to learning a new lesson each day and enjoying the journey.

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10 Things: The Life Taught Me…

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From: My Life (Abin c Pascal)

Play the moments, pause the memories, stop the pain, and rewind the happiness

 …Mary Ann

 1.       Education: It is for sharing and using not to keep as a safe thing in your pocket

Education: the base of a quality life. Education is not only getting the knowledge but it is all about sharing and using that in practical life. A man with a bundle of unused and unshared knowledge is like a man with a big jar of wine but not tasting and sharing it. It is worth nothing but wasting the space. Always share what you have and use it. The people will say that you are a leader and a consultant.

2.       Career: If you go for experience and knowledge, career will be lucrative and full of excitements

It a common illusion we turn our career into a cash plowing field in the beginning itself, it is a great mistake!!! Always follow you passion to choose your career and in the starting we will be facing liters and liters of difficulties but if you give your focus only on your experience and knowledge, soon you will be plowing tons and tons of benefits from your career. You will get the moneyfame and strength automatically. So focus on your passionknowledge and experience.

3.       Being positive is always gives you pleasure

Positive the word itself gives some positive energy. When I was starting my career as a management consultant, the challenges were high but now I am enjoying the job like anything and I am passionate about this job. See everything as a symbol of positive energy you will find no challenges but opportunities.

4.       Creating impact on others will make you remembered forever

“IMPACT”: When we say the word, we can feel the pressure and strength of it. Anybody can live in the world but at the end of the day people will remember only those who created some impact over their lives and such people are remembered foreverAlways ensure that your job, your character, your presence and your love has made some kind of impact on others. This is the only reason people feel void when they miss somebody. Think about it, think about the people who are in contact with you and think about the changes that they made only because of your presence, if there is it means you live in their minds

5.       Attitude matters- It’s a choice

Attitude is the only thing that matters in the new world. Attitude means the way you see the challenges as opportunities, the way you learn failure as the lesson of success, the way you behave when you are in the top position, the way you mind people when you have everything in your hand. From my consulting experience, I interviewed more than 1500 candidates and the major factor that I measured was the attitude of them. A good attitude will take you to the top level even if you are on the ground.

6.       Rectifying mistakes at right time will be valued more than a success

Mistakes!!! It is not at all a mistake if you rectify it at the right time. Always accept the mistakes that you have done and rectify it at the right time, then people will respect and your mistakes will not be counted. Learn from each mistake and teach others and improve yourself and never repeat the same again.

7.       Priority is the only thing that makes you win the game

Life is all about priorities, everything that you do is unknowingly prioritized by your mind and brain. If you don’t prioritize the life will no longer go like you dream, so always prioritize things that you like and follow that. In other words prioritizing is a common sense that helps you to understand what is more important to you.

8.       Love can change everything

Love the only thing that nobody can define properly, but it’s a feelLove and impact are highly co-related. When you love somebody, only the positive impact can make him/her love you back. It can change anything, it can break any rules and boundaries that mankind defined. If the impact of your love is high and deep then you will feel the changes around you, people will start feeling void in your absence.

9.       Solitude will help you to find yourself if you take it positively

Everybody feels that solitude or being alone is dark but for me it is the situation that helps me to discover the things in me. When I am alone I don’t have any boundaries in expressing what I feel then and there, I could go anywhere I wish to go, I could dream without any disturbances and I could talk to myself  and many more. All these things would shape the character of mine. So believe solitude can brings you better thoughts and realizations. Try at least once and you will explore who you are and what you want in your life.

10.   Creating great memories give you mesmerizing moments…always

Creating great memories is the place where everything come together, love, impact, passion and life. I have learned that great memories are always come from great love and passion because the impact of those two things will be remembered and live forever. Think anybody who is contact with you, a name will come like a swift, it only because they have made an impact and that you remember every time when you think about them. These moments are called mesmerizing moments that make you feel special every time.  Yes, I feel the great memories….

LLP- Life Is All About Learn, Love and Passion

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Article written by Abin c Pascal

Life: a very simple word but complicated to define. Only the one who can create an impact on others will be remembered forever and that’s why life is so important. It is not to just live but to make others feel that you are living.

Why Learning…?

Learning is a lifelong process where you get to know many things that are absolutely fresh to you but necessary for you. When you have the attitude to learn what life teaches you, you are the person who designs your own life. Learning can help you to:-

  • See things in a big picture
  • Let people follow you rather than you follow them
  • Take everything in a positive way
  • Make a better life with the experience that you have

Why Loving..?

Love: there is no reason for love, if there is, it won’t be love. Always understand, you cannot love anyone for a reason; if there is a reason then it is called ‘like’. At the end of the day people counts how you loved them, how you care for them and what impact that you have made on them..? So love without any limits and regrets and break everything that stands against it, finally love your own life and celebrate it like a festival. Love in life is:-

  • To make life more live
  • To feel special in each and every moment
  • To transform everything around you

Why Passion..?

Passion: is something like addiction and you never find satisfaction without it. If you have the passion in doing things, you never mind getting any return out of that, you never care about the time, you never feel frustrated but you feel full of energy and enthusiasm. So have a passion in your life and make it as your life.

  • Full of energy and enthusiasm when doing things
  • No worry about time, benefit and risk
  • Each time you will cherish about what you have accomblished

I would say

“When you find your passion you find the meaning of your life…”

Celebrate your life with LLP and make a transformation in the way you are living your life…

“Design your life and live in your passion…”

Abin c Pascal

Email: abincpascal@gmail.com